2018: The Year I Fell For Audiobooks...

Busy Book Nerds: It's Time to Embrace Audiobooks

If someone ever told me I'd be listening to books instead of reading them, I might have given them some serious side eye... until now!

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From Annual Intentions to Cyber Book Club

For years now, my cousin and I have sent each other a list of intentions at the start of every New Year.

This annual tradition helps us stay accountable to the actual practice of setting intentions AND gives us someone to share our progress with as the year goes on.

Last year (2018), my cousin decided she wanted to read more books. While I have always been a voracious reader, she was never into books in the same way as I was.

She's an engineer with an MBA and English is her second language.

That's all to say that in general the kinds of books we'd naturally be attracted to were already quite different.

I'm more poetry and literary fiction and she's all business books and some self-help (though I will admit I am a bit of a self-help junkie myself).

Her version of "reading" books was also quite different from mine.

She considered listening to audiobooks on her commute to be "reading."

My inner snob scoffed at this idea.

That doesn't count! I thought to myself.

But who was I to judge? After all, it was on balance a great thing that my cousin wanted to take in more books, even if in my mind she was kind of "cheating."

Despite all of these differences, we decided to create a "CyberBookClub" for ourselves.

She created a FB group and invited one other friend to participate.

All year we took turns picking a "book of the month," and then we discussed it in the Facebook group.

I had been meaning to finally pick up Shonda Rhime's Year of Yes, so I suggested that as our first book.

I checked it out of the library, but decided to see what all the audiobook fuss was about and downloaded a free audiobook copy as part of the Audible free trial.

I figured having the audiobook would give me something to listen to while I pushed my kiddo to swim class or circle time at the library.
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Well, surprising none of you who are reading this, my cousin had the last laugh. Audiobooks totally count!

And I'll go further and assert that they're even preferable in some cases.

Celebrity memoirs narrated by said celebrity? Those are meant to be heard, not read.

Yes, I could have read Year of Yes, but listening to Shonda Rhimes give the various talks that make up the book was so much more powerful.

Ditto on our last book of the year: Michelle Obama's Becoming.

I'll still going to buy a hardcover copy of the #1 selling book of 2018 because I want Michelle Obama's book on my shelves, but listening to her tell her stories in her own voice, that was priceless.

It was as if I were walking side by side with a woman I admire. There was a deeper intimacy I experienced having her voice in my ears than I might have had reading her words on the page.

And honestly, the fact that audiobooks could be so great shouldn't have surprised me.

I let my inner snob get the better of me, and I let myself forget that storytelling was first and foremost an oral tradition.

I let myself forget that placing value on the written word is one way the elite has exerted control over the poor, the uneducated, and the enslaved for centuries.

Here's the thing, they can stop you from learning to read, but rarely can anyone stop you from imaging, telling, listening to, and/or sharing your stories -- if that is what you are called to do.

I still love reading physical books. I love the way a book feels in my hands. The way libraries and bookstores smell. The way a good book can take me deep within myself as if by magic.

Books have been there for me during some of the most tumultuous times of my life. They have supported, sheltered, saved, and shown me the way on more that one occasion. I will never lose that love for physical books.

And I still prefer reading fiction over listening to it because I love the way my own imagination shapes the characters and settings -- something that is a little lost when a voice actor imbues their own interpretation of the text. (Shout out to voice actors though! As a former theater kid I really appreciate the craft in bringing a book to life — especially when one actor takes on all the different characters’ voices).

That being said, as a mom with little downtime for sitting with a book, I have appreciated being able to listen to books I've been meaning to read this past year.

If the choice is between:

(A) an audiobook while I run my errands

Or

(B) putting off reading a book I really want to read until "I have more time" (when will that be?!?)

then I'll now choose an audiobook almost each and every time.

You know what else?

​Audiobooks turned out to be a bit of a gateway drug. When I realized how much I liked listening to books during my many walks around town, I looked into podcasts and now I'm hopelessly hooked on those as well!

I say let's embrace and celebrate the proliferation of stories in all their forms and formats! ​Let's never again make the mistake I made of forgetting the inherent power of the oral tradition--a tradition that predates our precious books.

I'm done hating on audiobooks. Hating on them is elitist AF. And it's counterproductive if my goal is to enjoy and learn from what others are writing.

I was wrong, and I'm not ashamed to admit it.

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Cyberbook Recap

All in all our CyberBookClub read and discussed 10 books together (we took a few breaks). We enjoyed a mix of Celebrity Memoirs, Self-Help, and Genre & YA Fiction.

My top 5 out of the 10 are below, plus a few audiobooks I'm hoping to check out in the New Year.

What about you?

How do you feel about audiobooks?

​Drop a note in the comments and let me know!

Ready to get your Audiobook listening on?

• Start your Audible FREE Trial Today (includes some FREE Audiobooks).
• Download the Libby and/or Overdrive App (These FREE apps let you borrow ebooks and audiobooks from your library. You must have a library card and book availability depends on your library's collection and availability (so popular books might be harder to come by -- ie if my timeline is any indication, you're not getting access to Marie Kondo's tidying books any time soon - lol). Libby is recommended for new users (Overdrive is an older app). Read this review of both apps to get a better sense of which one might work best for your needs.

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MY 2018 AUDIOBOOK FAVES

MEMOIR

Year of Yes by Shonda Rhimes

This kicked off our year and it was the perfect first book. So many nuggets and such fun insights for a Shonda fan like me. I could definitely relate to her love for Sandra Oh's Cristina Yang -- one of my favorite characters. Her last lines in Grey's Anatomy are even on a post-it on my wall.

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Becoming by Michelle Obama

Such a wonderful insight into her youth, professional life, and years in the White House. I went to inauguration in 2008 and it was special to remember that long, cold, unforgettable day while also hearing about it from the other side.

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FICTION

The Education of Margot Sanchez by Lilliam Rivera

I met Lilliam at the Latina Writers Conference in LA in the fall of 2018 (Boricuas in LA WEPA!). I immediately purchased her book (which had been on my radar), so she could sign it for me.

I then promptly recommended it to book club, used my audible credit for the month to download the audiobook and got to listen to it as opposed to just staring at it longingly on my shelves because I couldn't find the time.

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I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter by Erika L. Sánchez

I love YA with Latina protagonists! More of these please!

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NONFICTION

You are a Badass at Making Money: Mastering the Mindset of Wealth by Jen Sincero

This one unearthed some money hang ups and sparked some ideas for earning money in ways that aligned with my creative goals.

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AUDIOBOOKS TO HEAR IN 2019

FICTION

The Poet X by Elizabeth Acevedo

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Dealing in Dreams by Lilliam Rivera
(forthcoming)

​Lilliam's second book is out this year and I can't wait!

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NONFICTION

Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear by Elizabeth Gilbert
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(I've read this before but have been wanting to revisit it and listening feels like a good option).

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Born a Crime: Stories from a South African Childhood by Trevor Noah

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Finish: Give Yourself the Gift of Done by Jon Acuff 
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NONFICTION PARENTING

No Bad Kids: Toddler Discipline Without Shame by Janet Landsbury
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(Currently listening to this one. Love her podcast, so I thought I'd invest in the audiobook too.)

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The Conscious Parent: Transforming Ourselves, Empowering Our Children by Dr. Shefali Tsabary

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